It's over isn't it

[SavvyJenks]

I've been with my BF for just over three years, and it hasn't always been easy but we've always liked each other enough to get through the tough bits, like most people I suppose. Recently however, I just don't fancy sex with him anymore and we haven't had it for a bit, (he's made a big effort to please me over the years but I just find it 'meh' and I can't be bothered with the more frilly stuff he likes) and find myself getting increasingly eye-rollingly annoyed by him. I'm supposed to see him next week after coming back from abroad and I feel a bit sick tbh, and a bit like I want to cry. I feel nauseous and upset even though we had a perfectly normal convo on the phone this evening. Is my gut, literally, trying to tell me it's done?

[Ryah76]

Sounds like it’s over

[PetersRabbitt]

Yh that’s over, to not miss him at all when his been away screams volumes

[Summerslam]

You like him, you don't love him. Please don't settle for someone you only like. Tell him it's over and get yourself out there and find someone who doesn't make you feel sick.

[Kitten2]

You'll feel better once it's done.

[SavvyJenks]

peters I do miss him though, but I think it's the familiarity I miss rather than the reality of him. Which i know isn't fair on him.