My ex is living with us while he finds a flat.
He's turned really nasty and is threatening to try to take the baby if I don't fall in line.
His problem seems to be that I'm talking to people on dating sites.
He's threatened to use my history of poor mental health and being in porn (,years ago,) against me.
For context I have been under the perinatal mh team, I have therapy and meds.
Please help, I feel so scared and vulnerable.
I'm so, so scared.
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Help please - ex threatening to take baby
Smellyoldowls22 · 06/07/2022 19:10
Wasywasydoodah · 06/07/2022 19:58
great that it’s your house. Call 101 police. Tell them that you’re experiencing domestic abuse and need help to get your ex out of the house. Womens aid can also advise you. Don’t let your ex find out until police come.
If you can, keep a log or record of everything he says. you can use this app if helpful www.england.nhs.uk/supporting-our-nhs-people/support-now/wellbeing-apps/bright-sky/ as it looks like a weather app but has a place you can keep a log. Try to call asap. Call 999 if you or baby are at immediate risk.
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Redburnett · 06/07/2022 21:00
Not sure how wise it is to think about dating when you have a 7 month old baby, better to focus on your DC for now, especially as ex still in the house.
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