2 years ago I married someone from abroad. Met him on holiday, typical holiday romance kind of scenario. Married within a year.. Yeah I know it's fast - not looking for judgement on that.
Went through all the expense and rigmarole of getting him a UK Spousal visa. Cost thousands, all of which I paid. He had no money and only a very menial job back home in his country (Tunisia). No savings either.
He claimed to love me blah blah blah but seems to have changed into another person within 6 months of being here in the UK.
Few examples include:
Staying out all night with "friends". I suspect he's with other women.
Phone switched off the time, so can't get hold of him when he's out. Worrying, considered we have a baby together and there could be an emergency.
Takes 2 hours to get home from his English lesson although the library where it's held is about 15 minutes walk from home (even if walking slow).
Never gives me money towards bills, rent or food.
Expects my family to pay for everything.
Is rude, disrespectful and always "too tired" to even speak to me.
I want him gone tbh. He knows I'm unhappy but has hinted that any attempts to leave him to cancelling his visa won't end well.
I'm worried he might tried to snatch our daughter to Tunisia (as you hear in those horrible tug of love cases).
How can I get away and get him out of this country?