Was I crazy?ex said I was "crazy"

[youknowitsnotthesame]

My last relationship was awful.
He brought out all my insecurities and then when I reacted said I was crazy.
Made me jealous on purpose,said he never said things he said,deleting his WhatsApp replies just showing mine ..to make me look like I was talking to myself.
Then telling me I had been "abusive " to him for months with my reactions.
Then he blocked me after I found out he did something awful-but claimed he blocked me because I sent too many questioning texts (after I found out what he did )
Yet not talking about why I reacted -because of the awful thing he did.
I just wanted a reason why he did it-yet his texts were saying "your behaving crazy " "get a hobby "
Then he said he was not blocking me on all social media -and he said he would of if he had decided too- but didn't.
Then he started messaging me on messenger totally normal a month later -after I messaged saying sorry.
Basically he made out I was crazy (he said his ex's were crazy when we met)

Anyway I'm now in a nice relationship and have been for 1 year and we live together.
I haven't behaved crazy,I don't think I am-am I ?
My boyfriend loves me and we've spoke about marriage.
I support him and take care of him-as he does me.
I would of been the same with ex but he treated me so bad.

It wasn't me was it? With ex ?
Oh and he said I was a narcissist too.
I need to learn from my behaviour
He had put up with a lot from me

I think he makes women "crazy" he provokes them and then when they react he takes no accountability for it.
He knows exactly what he's doing doesn't he.

Yes OP he has done it before, its who he is. He'll always be like this, so he'll do it to everyone he has a relationship with. He's not just done it to you. No he won't like what he's read about himself, so he will put it back on you, hence him saying he'll call police. You best not engage with him anymore these people believe their own lies and go way to far with their words and actions. They have no limit and dont know when to stop. Enjoy your new relationship and life x

He was honestly so convinced he had done no wrong.
That I was in the wrong
I dont know how he can do all he has done and not realise that it's him.
It's baffling

He knows. He just doesn't care. He only car about himself so what does it matter if all us plebs get hurt. Our feelings don't matter. we're just objects for him to play with. Toys.

That's how they think.

Think if it this way, if you stood on an ant today, would you care? Infact, you've probably squished millions in your life. How unfortunate, but, meh, its just the collateral damage of walking places.

Have you had any councelling? It sounds like he did a number on you and you could do with some help moving on from it

That makes a lot of sense ...
Insignificant like a fly
It makes me sick he goes around hurting people and just doesn't care.
I actually said that to him and he didn't even reply.