Breaking up, no strength

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Please can you offer advice on breaking up when you feel like they are you soul mate... I don't feel strong enough, we live together too

Why are you bresking up with your soul mate?

Or breaking....

He cancels on me, breaks his promises to spend time with me ect. It really hurts my feelings. I make myself available way too much so in reality I'm just running around like a mug for him. He doesn't appreciate what I do and it's making me so lonely and down. I love him with my whole heart, he hasn't cheated or been physically abusive which makes me think, is it really that bad? No one understands me like he does, we have a unique relationship and connection that would be impossible to find with someone else

No one understands you like him yet he doesn't appreciate what you do. So which is it?

He breaks promises, he cancels, you are lonely and down yet you think it would be impossible to find another relationship as unique as this? Read some posts here there is nothing unique in your relationship.

Take him off the god pedestal and get some happiness back.

“Catchy title about not seeing a future”
Opinions please…..
ill do this in bullet points out of ease of reading, not for lack of emotion

Mutually agreed that we are good for and compatible with each other in communication, humour (mostly), physical attraction, intellectually, sexually, politically, in monogamy, compassion, empathy, have complementary skills. We dance well!!
Due to offspring we have not lived together but have been frequently together in each other’s places and elsewhere.
A bit over an hour distance for the first two years, but now two hours due to work move.
Every day when not together (which has been More frequent since the move) we talk daily.
Despite the frequency of being able to spend more time together now possible, this situation will have to carry on for probably another four years. The most we’d probably get is a third of the time together during that period.
one of us believes that not being able to have continuity of living together for sometime is “a waste of life”. The other contends that the benefits of all pluses will not be bettered by proximity.

I’m the man,

Why have you posted on someone's old thread? You'll get better and more accurate responses posting your own.