So, partner broke up with me last week, we have a 9 month old daughter, relationship was going bad for a while. Decided the break won’t be permanent, just until we figure things out.
i really feel like I’m going crazy! He’s always telling me I’m in the wrong, and that I cause all the problems. I’m not a very confident person so I’ll admit I usually believe him, but today feels different, I’m sure I didn’t do anything wrong, but I really need some outside opinions!
a few weeks back before the breakup, I asked my partner to go to a festival with me, his reason for not wanting to go was that it’s a rubbish place and full of drugs, and he doesn’t want to go. today he comes to the house and says he’ll be going with his mates instead, obviously hurtful! He explained that he didn’t want to go with me because he can’t leave me alone and do what he wants, which is different to what he said originally, and that it’d just be better with friends. Now here’s where I’m confused, my partner has always asked me to be more honest about my feelings, so I said that it was hurtful that he’s happy to go with them but not me, but as we are not currently in a relationship, what he does is none of my business. He said that it was manipulative and guilt tripping! I really don’t think I did anything wrong, but he’s so adamant that I’m being manipulative that I’m really not sure, this happens a lot🙁