After realising I was in an abusive and coercive relationship, it's now at the point seperation agreed, dw said she would move out, won't share timeline or any info as to when or how it's progressing, still live together in a way that's apart but do minor things together weekly shop, sometimes at same table for food, sometimes have an evening talking. Everything else is seperate. As we have 3 kids I've always wanted normal life to keep resuming until point of discussing/informing them hence the come together for kids. It's been almost 6wks and I believe a number of weeks since she contacted housing but no feedback in terms of dates or financial discussions etc. Should I set a timeline then take reasonable action if no info is forthcoming after talking? I thought maybe she is holding on then slowly peel the bandage off, removing bit by bit or day by day to make it easier for her. The longer it goes on the more difficult it is my side, feelings arise and the not knowing of day to day schedules is very difficult ie do I get kids from school or drop them off, do I need to be in at lunch times or after school for them, can I schedule meetings extra or not, is she working in the evening or not which makes it difficult to plan kids/work/leisure. All of which she does not communicate until last min.