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Partner cheating on line

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Honeybunny222 · 26/06/2022 09:02

4 weeks ago I discovered my partner was signed up to multiple sites looking for sex and one night stands no activity from him didn't read messages send or respond . search history showed local escorts massage parlours being googled . Escourts number in his phone unsure if used

We have 8 month baby my world collapsed.. he has denied ever meeting anyone or that he ever would meet anyone and never cheated stating it was cocaine and he has an addiction.

States being so high not remembering even doing all of this ....

He is in recovery since and gone cold turkey we have split but omg the pain the shock

OP posts:
Didimum · 26/06/2022 09:10

I’m sorry this has happened to you. I think you have to leave him for good. The pain will ease when you get some distance and recognise that you do not treat people you love this way. You know he remembers and did everything with full intent.

Honeybunny222 · 26/06/2022 09:37

Thank you. Will take lot of time and therapy but I know I will some day x

OP posts:
Crystalvas · 26/06/2022 10:09

So sorry this has happened to you OP. You did right to split up with him. He only admitted to what you already know and tryed to make excuses. Stay strong and the pain will ease. Concentrate on your precious little one.

Crystalvas · 26/06/2022 10:10

You should get an STD test.

seaUrchinOne · 26/06/2022 10:20

Sorry to hear this happened, you did the right thing, actually it's refreshing to hear you split with him, a lot of similar threads have women that know but won't say anything or leave them.
You know your worth not to put up with that shit. It's only been 4 weeks but in time you will heal from it.

Begrateful · 26/06/2022 19:20

He's been caught with hands in the cookie jar. Next step is self-preservation mode which means he'll say or do anything to cover-up his misdemeanors.

Get an STD check and don't believe a word that comes from his mouth.

Be strong and move on.

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