I went through a horrible break up two weeks ago. It was an utterly toxic and abusive relationship and I am so relieved to be out of it. I feel like a different person. The actual break up was horrendous. He was absolutely vile and made me out to be abusive etc. All the typical gaslighting and self projecting bullshit. Because I am a nice (and stupid) person, I contacted him the days after our huge bust up, to end things on a nice note. After all, it wasn't all bad, although it mostly was. I was just an idiot forgiving his shortcomings, He threatened to call the police on me if I went near him again - I hadn't done anything to him, I wasn't harassing him, or being aggressive or anything! That's when I realised I couldn't end things in a civilised or decent way with him and I was an idiot for thinking I could. He has the potential to do some seriously awful things to me.
Anyway he blocked me on all channels. Which was a relief. And I started to move on with my life. A few days ago, though, he unblocked me. I was going to block him, but then became curious as to whether he would send an apology. I thought he may again do the decent thing. But nothing. I can't help but think he has unblocked me, thinking I would notice and send him a message. As if. Why else would he?
And, yes, don't worry I am not sat here thinking much about him at all. I am keeping busy and enjoying calm and posivity in my life, surrounding myself with loved ones. I'm just curious why he would threaten the police then unblock me - as if I am so awful!