If you go / when you went on a night out / spend time with your friends, do / did you ignore them if you got male attention?

[YouAreNotBatman]

Seriously, I’m getting so tired.

If we have agreed to do something together / meet up and a man comes over, then that’s it!
They completely forget I’m there, ignore me and I’m basically alone, might as well go out by myself.

Now, I’d like to know; would you treat a friend like that, or do I need to find new one’s?

Find new ones. I had SO MANY of these instances and was always made to feel like the frigid man hating bitch and I should be more accommodating 🙄

I once went out with a friend- I was Late 50s and married , she mid 40s and single and the minute she started chatting to someone at bar virtually dumped me-- after half an hour then brought 2 guys over! I've never been out with her since

I don't talk to men when I'm out. I'm too old and jaded.

Oh, thank you!

@Maunderingdrunkenly like the frigid man hating bitch,
oh that resonates.
I hate it.

I have been thinking for awhile that they may not be very good friens to me.
Not only they do this, but when they get into relationships, I barely hear from them, unless there is trouble in paradise or they break-up.

So tired to made to feel I don’t matter.
Sorry about the rant, and thank for the comments.

Yes.
Night out with friend at a club/bar... I was driving her to and from the place as she doesn't drive.
I noticed she vanished! Didn't answer her calls. Panicked...thought the worst.
Eventually she text to say a cute man talking to her suggested they move club to a more fun one. I was annoyed that she didn't have the courtesy to let me know. Yes I did go and find her I was concerned (shouldn't have - she was having a ball and saw nothing wrong with her actions). No longer friends now - it was years back.