So, long story short, I’ve been really unhappy in my relationship for at least 2 years. I know I should end it but I can never bring myself to have the conversation.
DP is either blissfully unaware, or happy to play pretend.
We often go through spells on not talking (he’s either in a mood or we just can’t be bothered speaking to each other) and the main topic of conversation is DS. We rarely do things as a family and when we do it’s more hassle than it’s worth. I’m better off planning and doing things alone or with family or friends.
As I say, I know I should leave but I can never bring myself to ask if he’s happy or just say I’m leaving.
However, the main reason behind this post is, it’s his birthday this week and when I asked what he wanted his reply was “sex” even though we haven’t been intimate in months. Do I or don’t I?