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Too much drama ?

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tedheeran · 25/06/2022 13:16

I'm a woman who has never dated a woman before.
I started being attracted to a friends friend.
At first my friend was okay about it because she thought it was just "fun"
Then it's progressed and she asked me out on a date.
We had 3 great dates and friend isn't happy about it.
She said she thought it was just us "messing around"
She has started to cause drama between me and the girl I'm "seeing"
The girl I'm seeing said it's a lot of drama and making her uncomfortable.
I told her that i don't understand why friend is being so awkward about it.

Me and another friend and her gf and my friend and bf arranged a day at the races ..I invited girl I'm seeing and the next day friend said she couldn't make it as she was "skint" so girl I'm seeing said "I best not come either"
Im assuming she knew friend dropped out because of her
Then my "skint " friend ended up going out the same night as the races with another friend
(Hope you can keep up)

Anyway I think unless I can get friend on board it's going to knock whatever this is on the head with me and girl I'm seeing

Is this just too much drama ?
Do you think girl I'm seeing dropped out because of my friend throwing toys out the pram.

OP posts:
Pepsipepsi · 25/06/2022 13:19

Well yes it does sound too much drama. If anyone was seriously interested in dating you they wouldn't be swayed so easily by a so called friend.
I would leave it alone and expand your dating and friendship circle.

custardbear · 25/06/2022 13:27

She either fancies one of you or she's being a dick

tedheeran · 25/06/2022 13:29

Do you think it's going to push girl away?
This is one of her close friends so I think I would always be the one getting ditched
Do I walk away now ?

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custardbear · 25/06/2022 13:46

Why not be honest if she can see it too? Perhaps tell her you really like her and want to make it work and how can you both get the 3rd (wonky wheel) on board?! Good luck 😉

yellowsmileyface · 25/06/2022 15:48

Why does your "friend" have such a problem with it?

If two of my friends got together I'd be thrilled for them!

My initial assumption is that she's jealous and fancies one of you, but that doesn't explain why she was cool with you two "messing around" but not actually dating?

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