My husband says he's joking and I need to lighten up that's him and I need to accept it ...but he name calls me any time of day to my face and even on the phone , slut ,slag, hussy, wench, bingo wings, 2 Bellys, saddle bags, thunder thighs frumpy the list is endless I've asked on numerous occasions for him to stop and explained its knocking my confidence self esteem basically making me feel really bad about my self it's making me spend most of my days getting changed wearing coats cardigans and uncomfortable slimming suits under my clothes, it makes me feel sad and not good enough I'm a size 14 and I want to be confident with that I have had 4 children I'm not looking for compliments at all I just want this to go away but he won't stop , he expects me to be confident when out and about but how can I infront of strangers if that's what my husband thinks of me.
I have never ever commented on his physical appearance it's just never crossed my mind
because I love him , I know what he is doing is wrong but what can I do .