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Messaging with unknown woman

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suffolkb · 24/06/2022 14:07

I need guidance about what to do about my husband and a mystery blonde. A few months ago I noticed he was WhtsApp chatting to a woman. Friendly stuff. It's very unusual for either of us to have friendships the other is not aware of. Her profile pic showed her to be blonde and younger than me. He said it was someone he used to work with. I didn't ask him to but he deleted the thread. All well and good until recently we went to a sporting event. We were already seated and a blonde woman walked past us with a man and a teenage boy. I thought she looked like the WA profile picture. She had a face of thunder as she walked past us.
I didn't say anything but my husband's body language was off. I looked at him and he was staring straight ahead, awkwardly. He's really good at hiding his emotions but he was really uncomfortable for a minute. Like a statue, like his brain was going overdrive. Like he was somewhere else. I swear it was this same woman I'd seen in the profile pic.
Because he had told me this mystery woman he'd been messaging actually lives over 200 miles away, should I mention it or not? It's really got to me. I keep remembering the look on her face.

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Watchkeys · 24/06/2022 14:45

There's a lot of conjecture, here. How come your first instinct isn't to ask him? Would you not trust his response? Might he be rude/defensive?

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