Weve been together 5 years.
Generally an awesome relationship, happy and in love. Sometimes though there are the odd little bits which make me question things.
Hes in touch with his ex quite a lot, they've got kids together. This doesn't bother me if it's about the kids. What's bothers me is, we'll be mid conversation and she will either text or phone him then he will shut me down completely and its only for her sending pictures of what she's having for tea or a manky toe nail!
She phones him quite a lot moaning about her boyfriend and she's wanting to borrow quite large amounts of money too.
About the kids fine, anything else sod off. Am I wrong?
He gets rather snappy with me when I make comments like.. whats she having for tea tonight then. Its like when I mention her he gets super defensive about it and I've started feeling like in his eyes she is more important than me. Surely his main focus now should be me and his kids? His future?
Anyway the things that's really pushed my buttons is he shouted at me mid week to stop asking if he's spoke to her. I said so basically you want your 'friendship' with XXXXXX and you want me to stay out of it.
He says no I didn't say that did I? See, I cant talk to you about anything you always twist it.
I told him if it carried on he would end up pushing me away..
Who's wrong here?