An ex boyfriend (who I dated simultaneously) to DH (DH didn't know and doesn't know) but before we got married.... and who I have not seen in 7 years and DO NOT WISH to see or be in contact with keeps sporadically contacting me.
I have told him 7 years ago I wanted to cease all contact. He proceeded to call me when I was expecting my first child) - which I had not informed him of (we have common friends and they would probably have told him). This lead to a very ackward conversation, DH was listening in so I couldn't really tell him to go away.... but I remained very cold.
He continued calling me about once a year but I think I hadn't heard back from him until today, the last two times he rang I hung up without saying a word and told DH there was no one on the other end..... now he seems to have found my new e-mail address and seen/heard about some changes in my life.
I don't know whether I should ignore the e-mail or respond and if I respond what do I say... tempted to say fxxx oxx....
Help????