My husband and I haven't been speaking since last Tuesday, I tried to talk to him when he came home on Friday evening. He ignored me completely and went upstairs so I followed him up and quietly said we need to talk to which he said I could talk if I wanted to but he had nothing to say. I was so distraught and frustrated because the whole thing started because he had ignored me on Tuesday night when I needed to talk to him (a previous thread). Anyway no speaking until Saturday we tried to talk it was more hostile and accusing than anything else and I tried my best but we ended up arguing and he left the house without speaking to me. So hear we are on Tuesday morning and I must admit I really miss him because usually we are so close so I tried to talk toh him this morning I said we need to stop this because it isn't good and neither of us is enjoying it. He was dosing at the time and I was getting ready for work but I've been disfunctional at work and so down that I just want it all to end and for us to at least try and make an effort. Do you know what he said to me "I was murdering sleep from his eyes" and started telling me that he went to bed late (he's not working today until 5.30pm). He hardly spoke to me and his attitude was not that of someone who is meeting you half way. why couldn't he have said shown me that he was interested in us making up. I was so angry and felt so humilated it was as though he was saying leave me alone now i want to sleep. How can your marriage be less important than your sleep???? I left the house angry and slammed the door. Is he trying to control me, break me down knowing that I'm hurting.