DH away. A. lot. Here tonight. Took DS to hobby (rare event). DS wanted daddy to read to him. DS difficult ++ at bedtime...takes ages to settle. Possibly ADHD/ASD. High frustration level. Been saying since 20.25, '5 min countdown to bed' etc. I take him down (dad wandering about kitchen tidying up). I sort toilet, teeth, still no dad. Go looking to find DS in kitchen watching TV again. Dad in garden emptying bin. I tell DS to go to bedroom and wait. DS explodes (as is typical). 'Dad won't be in for ages, I don't want to wait for him in room'. I send him to room and call to dad 'what are you doing out there when you're meant to be in putting DS to bed?'. Response 'Oh here we go..'. Me 'What do you mean?'. Response from him' well if you weren't giving off to me about this it's be why did you not tidy the kitchen, always giving off'. How would you feel?