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Hpw to cope after fleeing domestic violence

32 replies

Wildchild001 · 10/06/2022 21:25

Finally told my dad an hour ago that I am being mentally physically and emotionally abused by my partner we've now made a plan for me to get out of this safely and as quick as I can no children involved thank god just a dog he threatens to kill, i am frightened at my wits end how I will ever get my self and my life back after leaving even though I need to do this and be strong I just feel I have no fight left in me before telling my dad I came to terms with the fact I'm going to die either by him or me killing myself as that is where we are at now and wrote out everything I wanted for my funeral. My mum told me to not come knocking on her door so I only have my dad, i feel so alone and confused. Does anyone have a story to share if you have been through the same thing how did you carry on with life after as I feel I just want mine done and over now I'm 22 23 in a week and I literally do not see a future for my self I cannot believe I let my self get into this position I feel so ashamed and embarrassed

OP posts:
SophSoSo · 11/06/2022 22:51

We are all behind you, willing you on x

Im in the East Midlands and also happy to help if needed, I’m concerned that you’re stuck there even for a few days.

Be careful OP, this is the most dangerous time for you if he gets even an inkling that you’re planning to leave. Tell nobody, leave no clues x

looondonn · 12/06/2022 09:39

How are you OP??

Lovemypeaceandquiet · 12/06/2022 11:23

You got this @Wildchild001 💐you’re so young, you’ve got a whole life ahead of you.

I wish you all the strength in the world.

Wildchild001 · 18/06/2022 18:09

So sorry I didnt update the thread, I'm out he was in hospital and had to stay in so I left for my dog and my hamster and were out safe at my dads with my dad and brother, feeling mixed emotions but I know I've done the right thing got a lot to sort out but I'm feeling hopeful for the future going to start looking monday for a property of my own again somewhere with a big garden for the dog and somewhere I can call home and it be my own! Thanks again everyone x

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billy1966 · 18/06/2022 22:27

So pleased to read this.

You brave woman.

Well done.

Best of luck.

Don't hesitate to involve the police if he contacts you.

You can report him for his multiple assaults on you any time.

Remember that.

SoSo19 · 18/06/2022 22:48

I’ve been thinking of you and I am so glad you’re out!

stay safe, call the police and don’t ever go back - some days will be hard and you’ll miss him, but you deserve so much more. This is the start of the rest of your life x

BlueSuffragette · 19/06/2022 08:22

Well done OP. Best wishes for your happy future. Xx

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