Relations with my DP are very fractured. We are expecting in three months and I recently moved back to my own place, 45 mins away, as I couldn’t take his behaviour much more. I’ve still tried to be kind and encouraging about the relationship and said I am fully ready to move back in properly if we can get back on track.
instead, he’s turned into more of a brat it seems. I have messaged most evenings to ask if he wants to have dinner, watch a film, stay over, go to the cinema, etc etc. He doesn’t respond until the last minute and then has a lame excuse. I have been to his and found him drinking/drunk which hasn’t happened before. I mean obviously I’ve seen him drinking but never drunk like that.
He’s been arrested for driving without due care and attention and has a short driving ban coming up for a few weeks and a fine. I’ve tried to get him to participate in things with friends like my best friends bbq at the weekend…no engagement at all, just moodiness and explaining he’s busy or tired etc etc. Or he’s just plain horrible to be around.
I’ve wanted to try and make it work but I am getting so sick of it all. I’ve asked outright if he is wants to just be single and he says no. He has cancelled annual leave when we were supposed to be on holiday. The list is endless. I don’t know what to do anymore. Prior to a few weeks back he was moody but still respectful- supporting me etc. I’ve just had enough but is it too soon to give up?