We have been friends since the age of 14. and for the last 15 years we have been in a relationship, with 4 kids (youngest 8 months) We live in his house. My partner is messaging prostitutes, hes on dating sites, he's chatting up other women and calls them at silly times in the morning. I know he doesnt value me or our relationship (I dont get even a card on xmas, my birthday, mothers day, anniversary, etc - nothing) he kicked me and the kids out of the house (I'm staying with his sister) I'm financially independent and support him (when he asks) after the put me downs and name calling (which is often) I'm feeling a little isolated, I dont want to go out nor see people. Hes very dismissive of my feelings and somehow always manages to turn it back to his, emotions I cant talk to him as i cant reason with him. I think hes a little controlling as he makes it clear what he expects me to do with my day (despite me full time, studying full time and having a baby) I constantly walk on egg shells and I'm very careful with what I say as i dont want to piss him off - I'm worried I'm experiencing emotional abuse and this guy is never going to change, I'm asking myself why am I with him other than for the sake of the kids. Does anyone have any advice?