When ever I see my MiL she always makes a comment about my weight or hair or both on some occasions. In the 20 years I have known her not once has she been kind to me she bullies me and says unkind things about me . I have always been kind to her and never given her any reason to be unkind to me . My husband has only just started saying things like like her weight is because of her meds but this is only because I said to him it upsets me . For 18 years he never said anything he just let her carry on even though he knows it upsets me . If my family were unkind to him I would say that’s not nice please don’t say that to him again but he won’t put a stop to it with his mum . Not one visit goes by without unkind comments from her . When we couldn’t see her because of Covid restrictions it was lovely as she couldn’t be cruel . She’d have digs in the phone saying her other grown up children still see her insinuating that we should . I am CEV so we are very careful with Covid about . Any advice from anyone would be gratefully accepted . Thank you x