Is my friend disloyal ?

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I’m unsure what to do an very old freind I discovered went out with my ex which I thought was a no go for friends ?

Then I discover she was what’s aping my ex husband unsure of who instigated that

when she met my new BF she was drunk and quite touchy feely he said she was all over him she Denies it

I want to believe it’s just slightly disrespectful but when I ask my other friends they say it’s quite bad for a friend to act like this ?

She's not a friend. Sorry OP.

So she went out with an ex boyfriend of yours, was what'sapping your ex husband , and has been all over your new BF?

Seems to be a pattern here.

Going out with your ex , especially without asking how you'd feel about it, is bad form for a friend yes. Definitely not behaviour of a real friend. Whatsapping your ex husband presumably inappropriately / flirtatious? And now getting flirty with your current man...

Seems she is either an attention whore who needs the validation / attention of every man, or she particularly likes trying it on with "your" men.

OP is posting this on other threads.

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There are no rules. There's no definitive description of what 'disloyal' is.

Do you like the way she's behaving? How do you feel about it?