Hi everybody, I have been on here maybe less than 2 months ago when my husband had come home drunk and told our son he didn't love me anymore, anyway that i thought had blown over but i was wrong. I still had doubts in my mind as my husband said he didn't know for sure if hr was leaving, anywhoo we had been to IKEA and picked a nice kitchen as he said he's going to start an extention. Last night after a lovely few days I could tell there was something up and I said to him 'have you made plans to go out' and he said yes, I had presumed we would be going to our local oub with our son for a nice meal, 15 minutes later he was gone. He was sending me messages through the evening and we we're talking rubbish about the dog. I woke at 3.20am to go to the loo and he hadn't come home. He eventually knocked on the door at 7.25am this morning. I was not happy and I said to him where have you been and all I got was I don't know , I told him it wasn't very fair just to stop answeering my messages. I then went up to the loo and when I came out he grabbed me by the throat and slapped me really hard, he then pinned me down on the bed and to stop crying like a baby. He said he hares me and would rather be dead than be with me. So I told him that I would gp and take our son to my sisters. I'm not sure if people remember from before about how all this change in behavior was after he caught covid. He has just stayed in bed all day, no apology or anything, my son is so upset and yet he couldn't vare less. sorry for rambling on xxx