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Does my co-worker like me or is he friendly?

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bonniebaby123 · 03/06/2022 08:21

There is a new guy at my workplace and I think he might be interested in me but I can’t tell. We didn’t talk much until our most recent shift, during which he spoke very openly with me about his family and some of his issues. He went on to talk about his relationships and I mentioned that I wasn’t in one. Our conversation got cut off there but he mentioned it again later two times. He said that he’s just looking for a “nice, relaxed girl.” It stood out to me because those were the exact words he used to describe me earlier in the day. As time went on, he seemed to grow more interested in talking and helping me out with small things that he had refused to do in the past. For example, he used a word that I didn’t like the first time I met him, so I asked him to be more mindful in the future. He seemed to shrug it off at the time but during this particular shift, he would correct himself anytime he said it and turn to me to make sure I heard him. He was also joking around a lot which was kind of strange because he is usually fairly quiet. I can’t decide if he is just the kind of person who takes time to open up or if maybe he was just feeling more outgoing this particular day, but something was definitely different. Am I over thinking this? Is he just being a friendly person?

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Hiddenvoice · 03/06/2022 08:24

This is a tough one since you’ve only really got to know a little about him on your recent shift. It seems like he is taking your feelings into consideration and genuinely trying to be nice. I would just see how it goes over the next few shifts and see if he talks about meeting up or swapping numbers.

Mount2Climb · 03/06/2022 09:42

I think he is flirting and interested.

ZekeZeke · 03/06/2022 10:24

Don't shit on your own doorstep

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