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Dealing with narcissistic ex’s when you have children is an absolute f***er!

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Mullingover · 02/06/2022 07:16

Just feel the need to have a small rant. Every week at the moment I have to listen to the absolute mental ramblings of a narcissist. 30 mins he gets to speak to 6 year old daughter and it’s it’s just such a torture.

Yesterday for example it’s my daughters birthday in the next few days. He says do you know what daddy wished when he blew out his candles…I wished to see you in person so when you blow out your candles you do the same and she says yes daddy I will etc etc.

Its driving me bonkers having to listen to him brain wash her. It’s either that or when you stay daddy will buy you anything.
Ive spoken to the higher powers and no one gives a shit.

They get to carry on there lives as if nothing ever happened it’s just so incredibly frustrating. One thing he says is I can’t wait to take you to work and show you off. No one can believe I haven’t been able to see you they will be so excited. Everyone in his life thinks he is a victim. It’s so hard to be the victim of emotional abuse. Even though proven guilty at court they they are innocent and paint you to everyone as bad. Next will be our daughter. He keeps telling her how he is fighting against the system to see her, telling her a lie. His behaviour was the reason they didn’t allow contact for so long.

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Cherrysoup · 14/07/2022 19:28

Is he not allowed contact in person?

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