Hi, this might sound stupid but I'm in the most amazing relationship with literally the man of my dreams... however I can't seem to switch off my overthinking that's telling me I'm not good enough for him. I've always (as far back as my early teens) suffered with my image - always put myself down and not liked myself. I finally got out of an emotionally abusive marriage nearly two years ago, and I've now found a man who is more than I could've asked for. He's nice, kind, funny, thoughtful, emotionally available, generous....and very handsome. We've been together over a year now, but I still can't help but feel triggered by how attractive he is?! It sounds so stupid. My friends, family, work colleagues etc all comment on how good looking he is (which at first I loved) but now I can't help but let my mind wonder why on earth he's settled for someone like me. Someone at work once asked me how I managed to pull him and that plays on my mind even though it's said in jest. I find myself apologizing to him constantly for how I look day to day (working mum so it's usually no makeup and hair up) and he always tells me he is just as attracted to me on these days as I am when I'm dressed up...but why can't I believe him?! I know our relationship is strong, I know we are so much more than what we look like..we laugh constantly, we cry together, we never argue, I know I'm his everything. But why doesn't that stop me from convincing myself that one day he will realize he can do SO much better than a plain Jane like me!?? I had therapy after my marriage, and that touched on my confidence but I don't find it's actually helped? Nothing seems to make me like what I see in the mirror...