I'm lost

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Hi all I'm looking for advise my partner of 9 months has just left me we had been having dates and stuff 2 years before this but all in the relationship he would always listen to his ex he would say I've got a court order in place I need to do what she says or I'll lose her bearing in mind the daughter Is 12 and he hasn't been with her for 10 years because she cheated and gel pregnant with his brothers kid the daughter gets whatever she wants by anyone in his side of the family he's been telling the ex and the daughter he's leaving me and the ex txt him and said he's a fucking joke because he didn't leave me at the time he said he was and he's lied to her and the daughter and she's lost all respect for him now I've told him he still loves her or has feelings for her and he says this is untrue he just wants to be on his own!! But he states that this court order states he needs to spend time with her but when he has her she's either out at the fair cinema or with her friends he's never spending time with her!
Was it just me that was the problem?

His ex is pregnant with his brother's child?!
Your ex is right that he needs to listen to a court order.
9 months isn't really a partner. It shouldn't be this hard so early.

No she cheated on him
10 years ago and had a baby with his brother and they havent been together since but he always listens to her the ex

It was 9 months and he sounds like hard work
Find someone who values you more

I think he's the problem not you and you deserve better. You've wasted 2 years of your life on this bloke while he's strung you along; forget him and move on.

Sounds like it doesn't it

I don't think he's fully over his ex and he tells me this is untrue and he hates her

There's a fine line between love and hate. Hate is a deep emotion, so find someone who is ambivalent about their ex's. If they still hate them, they are not over them.