me and this guy have been seeing each other for a while, we both agreed early on that we both aren’t ready for a relationship but would see each other exclusively
We have gotten a lot closer obviously, he’s even said on occasion he doesn’t class himself as single but I think he’s reluctant to put a label on it, so am I, I think I’m a bit of a commitment phobe. We’ve said I love you, and not much has happened since then, we’ve just carried on as before. He seemed quite happy, we had a disagreement to something not related and he blew up saying I’m being hot and cold, I’ve not given him any indication that I want our relationship to move along or tried to move it. Am I being crazy by thinking if he wanted that he could talk to me? I didn’t even respond to that part of his message and said we can talk in person. But surely if he wanted to he would?