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Why doesn't he care or feel bad?

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Alicew00 · 25/05/2022 19:50

My boyfriend wind's me up all the time and on 3 occasions where he's drunk mote than normal he's decided to have a play fight but its violent. On the weekend he hit me over the head real hard so I hit him back and it continued for a while then he dragged me to the floor and slapped my legs over and over.
I needed ice for my arms the next day as they were swollen but he didn't care. He just said I'm in a mood. I really didn't feel like smiling at all I was hurt. When we went to bed he just watched his phone on loud again and he knows I was trying to sleep.
I wanted to die right there and then. I tried to tell him how I felt but he said its just a joke. When I tried to tell someone infront of him he said we had a playfight and he won.
I want him gone but all his stuff is at my house. I really wish I could pack up and leave but it'sy house he's on the agreement or anything.

OP posts:
FlissyPaps · 25/05/2022 23:45

Hope you’re okay OP, and have people IRL you can confide in💐

Please contact Women’sAid.

Also agree with PP’s, change the locks. This is your house. It isn’t a joke at all, it is abuse. He won’t feel bad because he is an abusive narcissist.

ElenaSt · 25/05/2022 23:54

I don't know of any normal minded adults who have play fights. That kind of thing is for pre schoolers.

If you think he is going to attack you when you ask him to leave, arrange Dow the police to be there whimsy he packs his stuff and clears off.

Get the lock changed if he has a key as even if he hands it back he could have a spare.

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