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Husband forgot anniversary

9 replies

pixiegirl91 · 25/05/2022 01:10

So it was our 3 year wedding anniversary a couple of days ago! I had reminded my husband continuously 3 weeks before. It got to our anniversary date and I got nothing, I'm not talking presents I mean not even a "happy anniversary" I left it a while then put a pic up on Facebook and put "3 years. Then he called me and laughed it off. Later after work he admitted while he was in a shop he was going to get me a card but didn't bother as he got side tracked by a text. Later that night I got a small hug and a "sorry this anniversary was rubbish (laughed) goodnight" rolled over and went to sleep.
am I wrong for being annoyed?
I didn't want a gift, just a a nice message or some affection.

OP posts:
Onthedunes · 25/05/2022 01:14

Divorce him and laugh.

Bunty55 · 25/05/2022 01:26

So he knew it was rubbish and he laughed? There must be more to this OP

Carlycat · 25/05/2022 01:50

What a catch Angry

Shehasadiamondinthesky · 25/05/2022 02:12

What a twat. Id be withdrawing all wife work and sex.

Begrateful · 25/05/2022 02:18

Wow, he must have a lot going on at work but then again one can make time to prioritise what's most important to them in the world.

Seems this year's anniversary didn't make the cut.

Moser85 · 25/05/2022 02:32

What's the rest of the relationship like?
Do you ever get nice messages or affection?

Inthetropics · 25/05/2022 03:02

Is he usually kind and considerate towards you? Do you feel loved in other ways or would you say he is not a good husband at all?

It's crap, but it doesn't mean you're not loved if he is afectionate in hiw own way...

coffy11 · 25/05/2022 03:34

Shehasadiamondinthesky · 25/05/2022 02:12

What a twat. Id be withdrawing all wife work and sex.

What a stupid thing to say. And what the heck is wife work?

I'd be disappointed too op

autienotnaughty · 25/05/2022 03:57

Is this typical behaviour?
Did you give him gifts?
Does he know anniversary's are important to you?
I think you need to be honest and say you are hurt at his lack of thought.

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