I rented out my room for an few months the contracted ended last week, however, the person approached me if she could sleep on my sofa for few days. It's not something that I wanted but as the new person was arriving two days late I agreed. I was embarrassed to be honest, she does not seems to have any awareness, everything is about her and her needs and no regards for other people.
Somehow, she has fallen in love with a man renting another room. When I tried to raise my concerns, he became defensive saying that she will go as soon as she get what she is waiting for. She offered to pay, I rejected this as I wanted her to leave after weeks of bending backward to her demands. I work from home and like to keep a routine, I am unable to keep my routine as the man is now sleeping on the sofa and she is sleeping in his room. She is very happy with this arrangement because she is still around him.
They have been playing house for weeks, she would make sure that she cook for him every night, followed by long conversations into the early hours in the morning. So most of the time, I am upstairs in my own home! She does not like him talking to me, very jealous, she will hoovers around for ages if she see us talking. I feel uncomfortable. This morning I told him again that she have to leave as I am not able to keep to my routine, as he is sleeping on the sofa and it's a open plan kitchen with lounge and having to wait till he is up for me to go downstairs.
He got defensive again and I told him that she was not here for me as she hardly talk to me. She will mop around all day waiting for him to get back from work and then cook and they eat together.
He waited for her this morning but she goes to bed late and get up late. She seems to be oblivious as long as she is around him. I think he must have texted her as she has packed up her things and not a word to me.
I cannot wait for her to leave!! Any advice?