how Much would it bother u if u recently found out ur husband lied a lot to u?
I’m mostly an honest person (will tell small white lies once in a while eg- say I didn’t hear my phone ring if my mum calls and I’m busy and haven’t got time to talk or will agree with a friend if it saves her additional upset etc) I don’t tell big lies and I am always honest with my husband- not even white lies. I always thought he was the same. Past 3 months I’ve realised he lies a lot- from where he is- what he’s bought- things at work etc. I don’t suspect he’s cheating but feel I don’t know him. He’s always losing things- he recently lost his AirPods which he got as a present. We spent weeks looking for them all over the house- I was genuinely gutted as he only had them a couple of weeks. I found out a few days ago he knew exactly where and when he lost them- on a train so no way of getting them bk and def no possibility of finding them in a drawer at home.
how much would this bother u? I just q how much I know him at all. Been together 22 years. Please feel free to say I’m totally overthinking this. Thanks!