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Need to leave relationship

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Kitty389 · 24/05/2022 01:16

Hi I’m in need of some guidance

ive got a nearly 2 year old daughter and Im wanting to leave a long term relationship it’s causing my mental health to go really downhill and he don’t care at all.

So since the start of this relationship there has been multiple lies and hiding/deleting things. I’ve always ended up finding the truth and he apologises makes all the excuses under the sun and silly me gives chance after chance. It’s been from searching other women’s facebooks to lying about working with women in a previous job. And all sorts of other lies or hiding things in between up till now even.

it’s at the point when something comes up or I’m upset he goes to bed and goes to sleep calls me pathetic and a cry baby and goes not a care in the world or a word said after I’m left to cry myself to sleep basically.

im in a situation where we rent a house together I only work bank as and when as I’m a full time stay at home mum basically and all money goes into a joint account so im stuck when it comes to money and a house. I don’t want to just leave and scree things up for my daughter I can’t afford to leave or rent this house alone. I don’t really have any family to go to either so I feel trapped and isolated. Please if anyone has any form of support or know where I can go to get help then let me know I’m so low and I feel so bad for my daughter…

OP posts:
Bednobsbroomsticks · 24/05/2022 08:46

Is he deleting things because he's worried about your reaction to normal stuff or is he genuinely doing things wrong.

Are both your names on tenancy agreement. Is it social housing or private rented

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