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My boyfriend is calling me names and won’t stop argueing

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Expecting2022 · 23/05/2022 21:20

A few days ago I brought up my feelings to my partner over money issues. I called him no names just told him how I was upset over it I was and said all we needed to say and said would discuss further in couselling and leave it for now. He took this as a huge personal attack on himself when I was trying to let him now how unhappy I was about that certain issue. Since then he got bitter and annoyed. I feel like I can’t express anything to him but has to result in a massive arguement that last for days. The thing is Im only a few weeks pregnant. I’ve been through the mill with ivf and now I’m pregnant and he’s being horrible to me. He’s so defensive and I feel like I can’t say anything to him at all about my feelings and if I do it ends up this way. At the moment I’m very sick with morning sickness and dizzy and in bed most of the time. He is continuing to argue and calling me a bitch and to fuck off. I’m so upset that he could treat me like this when I’m pregnant and sick. I never thought he would be capable of this. It’s all about him and his feelings and he doesn’t realise the stress he’s putting me through. I’m not even 12 weeks yet so I’m worried for the baby. I’m upset that it’s looking like I will have to do this alone. How can I stay with someone who can call me names when I’m sick and pregnant? I suppose I’m just looking to see if anyone has been through similar.

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ExtraOnion · 23/05/2022 21:32

Do you have anywhere to go this evening, you need to take yourself out of the situation (if it’s safe to do so), and get some peace, quiet and rest.

This isn’t, in any way, acceptable from him, regardless.

GrumpyPanda · 23/05/2022 21:35

He sounds horrible.

ToastedWaffle · 23/05/2022 21:39

Oh OP, I'm sorry. I went through similar with my ex and it didnt improve once kids came along. It got worse. He is an ex for a reason. Well many.

PM me if you want Flowers

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