I thought I was ready to leave DH, I've thought about it numerous times over the last 3 years. Things have been really hard for us both and he pushed me away to the point where I stopped trying to make it work. However, he's now devastated about the thought of me leaving that the guilt is making me reconsider. We have 2 DS who are under 5. We started seeing a counsellor and he's accepted he took us for granted. He's also trying really hard, but I can't see it being sustained knowing that I've made all the same points before, just now I'm telling him with someone else there!
I guess my question is how normal this last minute panic is about thinking I'm making a mistake. Has anyone left and regretted it?!