How do I have the annoying what are we doing after university talk? My partner currently lives quite close by to me due to university but come
end of June that’s all going to change they will be up in north and I’ll be in the midlands (about a hour and half train journey). I’m really on edge because I want us badly to last and make this work we’ve been together around seven months… we’ve also been through a lot. They have spoken about doing a masters at some point which would be close by but they aren’t planning on doing that anytime soon (that would only be a sort term solution). My home situation isn’t ideal so I can’t really have them over and theirs isn’t either so that’s not really possible… I was considering moving out into a house share but I’m unsure on the rules of having a partner over and I feel like my partner would want to be there a few days since all the travel. I’d love to say do a masters just so we could be close and I could plan abs save for the future better but that seems really unfair to push that onto that just for the sake of that. I was thinking maybe doing hotels??? But that gets quite expensive bad… I really badly in my heart want this to work I know it might seem silly but I have ADHD so when I date I tend to overthink and love really hard. I don’t know how to bring this up in a way that isn’t overwhelming but for some reason it’s eating away at my heart… I badly want us to work. Does anyone have any ideas? Similar experiences? How do I bring up this conversation without crying and getting overly emotional and not putting to much pressure on them? But also getting my point across I badly want this to work and it is starting to stress me out…