Lying scumbag!

[Mkkm]

I'm a 28 year old female 3 kids and a total arse of another half! Just on here to have a rant I suppose but needed some support also. I've been with the same guy since I was 16 BIGGEST mistake of my life apart from my 3 beautiful babies. He's such a control freak I have no friends not aloud to go anywhere and when I do go it's 1000 questions and accusations when I come home. Anyway long story short he buggers off every weekend sometimes comes home sometimes not acts like a teenager tbh he's 33! So tonight he left his phone and I went through everything and found out his friend's wife has been asking him to go to hers before her man comes home am not stupid but scared to confront him as It will just end up in a big scene and my kids are the ones to hear it and it breaks my heart! Also there were other girls numbers he's been trying to phone I really need to find the strength to put him out as he does nothing for us at all he's the kind that's all for himself! Anyone else in the same boat or am I the only silly cunt here x

Not in your position and if I was I wouldn't be for much longer . Sorry to hear youvare going through this .I'd be changing the locks next time he goes out xxxx

Did you take pics of his phone? You don't need them but he will likely deny then delete everything.

Is he violent? You seem scared to confront him.

Do you have any family locally?

Only you can decide if you want to keep living like this (and it doesn't sound like it from your post), - if not then you will have to confront this.

Good luck

I have been in your position.

Do yourself a favour and get rid. Prepare for the begging and then the abuse.

Take evidence of the texts so that when he tries to gaslights, you can remain sure of the facts.

Tbh let the friends wife have him - it'll be doing you a massive favour.