Okay so...I've been with my partner nearly 6 years. So lovely and I feel safe and happy with him. He's a boob man, and I don't mind him being silly and copping a feel now and then. Then tonight in bed I took my top off as it's hot. He came over complimenting me on my breasts and sucked on my nipple. Kissing them and fondling. I laughed it off continued on my phone and said he can have a feel just please don't put my nipples in his mouth as he knows I really dislike it. He kind of lay on my chest massaging my breasts. I clearly wasn't into it as far as having sex goes as was on my phone and just stroked his hair...but 3 or 4...maybe even 5 more times did he suck my nipple and each time I asked him to stop as I don't like it. I dislike the feeling. Eventually I said it abit harsher/upset. He kind of laughed it off as if I was being silly and then joked that It means I wasn't attracted to him and pretended to be upset. He could see I was upset. I tried to explain "He would rather I said I didn't want something if I was uncomfortablewouldnt he?" I went all quiet and he asked what was wrong and shrugged it off when I said I was upset about what had happened. He went to sleep and I had a few tears and feel sick. Am I over reacting? I kept asking him nicely to stop. I feel sick about it and all wrong.