So I've this guy for 10 years. We used to date when we was young, we lost contact and rekindled josh after I had my daughter. (Now 5) it led no where. Recently we've just got back in contact. He's just got out of a 6 year relationship on which the last year, he was cheated on abs basically the whole thing was hell for him abs he's disconnected in all ways possible. There situation is messy rn with two kids separated from Eachother. As she had left there home
When we met again, the connection was there instantly, everything felt right we spent 6 hours talking about everything . We spent the weekend together and he suggested moving in. I agreed. He told his son I told my daughter. He then later was saying it was too fast, kept making comments about going to his mums as he'd see me all the time anyway. I don't think this is fair on the children. I've now found out I could possibly be pregnant. An it may not be his, he said if it's someone else he will leave. But we wouldn't know until the babies born. We know each other so we'll, we know each others family's, we are so right for each other, but is this destined for failure. Slowing down as he said it's too fast is right but i feel he should have thought about that before us telling our children (5&3) and me getting comfortable and used to it. He does a lot abs is a really bad guy. I just don't want to sabotage.