*lighthearted*Do you think you give off happy vibes that make you attractive?

[stillvicarinatutu]

Just judging but this is a bit weird 😂
So after being a miserable slightly lonely singleton for 3 years I started a relationship with someone who I absolutely adore .it's all going really well and I'm really happy .
I moved into a new build house in feb and it's had some issues so the site managers have been in and out fixing things but I've not reported anything in ages . One of the site managed popped round last week because there is an issue with the turf that was laid but he said he'd sort it - so left it .
Today the other (well hot dish of a ) site manager knocks at the door . I was a bit shocked and said hi - to what do I owe this pleasure !? He said oh I was just in the area and wanted to check everything is ok . So I said yes all fine thanks - well apart from the turf . So he says oh can I come in and take a look ? So in her came and played with my dogs and chatted for AGES . About nothing . And everything . Really lovely bloke, ex marine , proper hottie 😂. ( sorry I know that's not politically correct !) but I just found it really really odd and out of the blue ! I didn't mind in the slightest - but if I'd invented an issue with the bedroom 😂 .....

Do you think when you're content and happy you give off attractive vibes or are they just taking bets?

I acted completely normally and resisted the temptation to flirt 😂

The other site manager had already taken pics of the turf and said they'd sort it

Yes I think you do , you have a glow about you that makes you more attractive !

To the tittle question,
No, it all bullshit.

I have been very happy person in the past, trusting, kind, wanted you things for people, etc.
(I’m not anymore any of these things)

Nothing like this (or a relationship) has come my way.

It’s all about looks.
Pretty people want to claim it’s the inseide what counts, but it’s all about looks.

Really ? Because while I don't look like the back end of a bus I aren't the epitome of beauty . My new fella has something about him that makes him incredibly attractive to me and it's not his looks ....so not sure I think it is all about what someone looks like . ?

I think being happy and smiley obviously makes you more approachable, so you will get more men chancing their arm. Some people also look much better looking smiling than not. But happy as you are, you don't have a permanent grin, so it wouldn't alter your overall looks that much.
For first impressions external looks is all. You could be happy as a clam and still attractive to no one; or dying inside, but if you're hot, you're hot.

Yes.

Altough, I’d say women are much less shallow than men.

@stillvicarinatutu no it definitely isn't all about looks but what some people class as attractive are not other people's cups of tea . I had a bloke come to clean the carpets a while ago I was dressed scruffily and I'm certainly no oil painting but I like to think I'm chatty and easy to talk to . He obviously thought the same as I got a lot of messages after that some quite late at night . Why he couldn't just see it as me being friendly I don't know !