Why is it important to have your own surname? I think I’ve probably missed something huge here but I’ve read loads that you shouldn’t give the other surname, I’m just not sure why?
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AnneLovesGilbert · 16/05/2022 10:03
Why would you give your child someone else’s surname?
coffy11 · 16/05/2022 10:39
Because the baby is yours. It's just a stupid sexist tradition to give the baby the fathers name.
coffy11 · 16/05/2022 10:39
Because the baby is yours. It's just a stupid sexist tradition to give the baby the fathers name.
MsTSwift · 16/05/2022 11:45
Always cracks me up when these dimwit men say they want the baby to have their name “for tradition” but havent even got married! So only traditional when it suits you then mate …
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