I've posted before but Nc'd since. After a long marriage I've finally had enough of the gaslighting and lack of respect but stuck while youngest doing A levels. We haven't had 'the talk' but surely it's obvious as we don't do anything together and now I'm doing lots of things on my own.
Anyway I'd been invited to an event this weekend and asked him if he'd wanted to come weeks ago. He'd said yes, unexpectedly. I checked today and he said he was no longer coming. So far, no surprise . But what incensed me was he said, do you remember I told you? I'm almost 100% sure he didn't, not swear on my children's life sure. But more, I wouldn't have been thinking I needed to check with him sure, if he'd told me he couldn't come.
He's got form for this and I just can't believe he's still treating me with such disrespect. But in one way, it's good because it reassures me that I'm doing the right thing!
I don't know what I want from this thread, but I'm just so weary of it and I feel I've wasted so much of my life!