Hi all. I spoke recently about splitting up with my fiancé having found out he had messaged a young girl and a secret baby. The week after I split with him he was telling me how he was sorry and wants to change. Offered to meet up for a chat etc. said he would get his own place to grow up and see how we get on. Obviously I kept telling him I couldn't forgive him etc but he kept being persistent. I had found out from these young girls that they met him through a "sugar daddy" dating site. They showed me his profile and messages. He had offered them money to meet him but they said they declined and found him annoying pestering them with messages and dirty pictures all the time. Now finding this out made me feel so so hurt and betrayed even more as some were dated back from months ago and some were recent. There's a huge age gap between him and these girls. It made me sick! I told him what I knew and that I didn't want to see him anymore and to get his things from my home asap. He said it was only ever messages and he never met any of them and he's tried to change but there's something wrong with him and he can't. He got his mum to get his things and god she was awful. She put the blame onto me. She said I must've made him unhappy and how he was never physical with the girls so why did it matter. Also said he never hit me etc. and how all this is causing her more stress to deal with and why have I done this - she sounded like she wanted to make me feel guilty for chucking him out. I just couldn't understand why she had to be so nasty to me. Has anyone had a similar experience or am I just extremely unlucky? is this just as bizarre to you as it is to me. It's made my mind blown