Two weeks ago my nephew got married, it was a beautiful day, i thoroughly enjoyed it. However, his mother, [my sister] i've always had a slightly strained relationship with. The phrase........"long after you've forgotten what somebody's said, you'll never forget how they made you feel" literally springs to mind. I always feel inferior in her company and that i can't be myself.
So this morning, i received a message from a relative in the US to say she'd seen all the wedding photos on FB..........[i'm not on FB, i left it over 3 years ago] but was surprised i wasn't on any of them, AIBU in my assumption that i wasn't photogenic enough or important enough to be included, or am i just making a mountain out of a molehill?
To be fair my sister did say on the day she liked my outfit. Weddings are really stressful events, especially with families. At work and with friends, i'm a completely different person, so much more confident and comfortable in my own skin, often when i'm around her, i recoil into myself.
Any thoughts would be gratefully appreciated.