Hi All,
Recently I began chatting to a lovely guy on social media. He said he was looking to date. Chatting for a week I found out his 3 month relationship ended just 9 weeks ago. She had dumped him. He admitted he is still hurting as the relationship though short was intense.
To ease the pressure I suggested we just met as friends, without labelling it a date, to take the pressure off.
It was amazing and though we planned to meet up for an hour on a walk we ended up going out for a meal as well and spent many hours together. We kissed at the end.
We continue to message but he says he isnt ready to date yet. Most of the messages are me giving him emotional support.
We have arranged to meet again but I don't know if I should. Any ideas?
Do I hang around hoping for things to progress or do I tell him to contact me later, say in a few months, when he's feeling more healed?
Effectively am i being used as a distraction?