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Don’t know what to do about my Relationship.

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Butterfly944 · 01/05/2022 18:40

I have been with my boyfriend for 10 years and we have lived together for 6 years.

In the past 6 months something has just changed in me and I don’t want to be with him. I do everything in our house, cook, clean etc and he’s just miserable all the time.
we don’t do anything together or go away. I’ve asked for years to go certain places but he can’t make a compromise for what I want. I’ve mentioned about going on date nights or drinks/meals out but he never wants to go. All he wants to do is stay in and play computer games..

I would love to have children in the next couple of years but he doesn’t want them so that’s the make or break thing for me.

The hardest part of this all is he doesn’t know how I feel or that I want to break up. I don’t know how to tell him and I’m scared sh**less!
He owns our home so I would have to move out and at the moment I can’t think of anywhere or anyone I could stay with so the stress of that is making me stay.

If anyone has been through similar or has some good advice, please let me know. I feel like I’m at breaking point.

xx

OP posts:
Jenniedontbehasty · 01/05/2022 18:52

So sorry you’re going through this. It sounds like you are not suited to each other at all. Life is precious. Don’t waste another moment with someone who makes you unhappy 💐

SpindleInTheWind · 01/05/2022 18:55

You need a plan.

Where did you move into house from? Have you contributed to his mortgage? Do you have any savings for a rent deposit?

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