Hello everyone! I've lived with my partner who's 30 years old for a bit more than a year now. I'm 35 myself. We've had quite some arguing over the time we've lived together and while arguments are normal we both have a bit unsound ways to cope with it and have agreed to actively work on it. I do feel that I am being the more active one when it comes to that though.
Yesterday we had some stuff to deal with and previous issue to resolve. He had planned to game on his PC and I said I think it's more important that we solve our argument, he refused and did his gaming time. By the time it was done it was around midnight and I was tired and wanted to go sleep. He wanted to start resolving the issue then and I said that i won't put myself in that situation where I can't control what I say due to me being tired. That he chose his priority earlier when we were both still fit to talk.
He started discussing anyway and I asked him to please respect my wishes and let me sleep. He then said he would leave and go to his parents. Usually I would try to stop him but I just said that fine, if he wants to solve problems that way then be my guest and leave. I think he wanted me to start arguing it. He took his pc and left when I didn't. Haven't spoken to him since. I don't know what to do, he picks up and leaves me here alone with my thoughts and I just don't think it's ok. He's done it 4 times I think during the last year. I don't want to play along anymore, why should I stop a grown man from leaving?
Grateful for any advice.
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