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Secrets

4 replies

depechegal · 28/04/2022 19:07

I've been with my partner almost two years.
A week ago I found out via a video call that his ex wife is coming to stay in September. He never told me. She wanted to stay at his house.
Turns out she never knew about me either...
He says they're just friends. She lives in Florida and has remarried, she's not bringing her husband either.
He's going to f*ck her when my back is turned isn't he?

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redheadmary · 28/04/2022 19:13

Maybe that's a tad dramatic assumption I made there but equally I do wonder why he didn't tell him. U need to be straight up and ask him no messing around

Gowithme · 28/04/2022 19:17

Why is she coming over? I wonder what her husband makes of it!!?? How did you find out via videocall if he didn't tell you?? It all sounds very strange. I guess they might just be friends - did he agree for her to stay at his...it's all a bit unclear tbh.

depechegal · 28/04/2022 19:23

Apparently she's a friend of the family.

She rang him on video call last week so I overheard everything.
I just find it very uncomfortable, he only has one bed and the fact that he never told me.
She's a serial cheater and I don't trust her.

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Worlid · 28/04/2022 19:56

The situation is very strange, so you need to discuss everything calmly and openly with your partner. Ask him out well if he is no longer absorbed in the connection.

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