ADVICE NEEDED PLEASE

[Kate8898]

Hi everyone! Looking for a bit of advice! So met this guy on a night out we texted the day I wasn’t feeling it then few months later he popped up on Snapchat so I added him! ( yes I know I should have moved back to texting) We got talking straight away and 5 weeks of talking all the time we met up I am a very shy person and not confident so we went for a few drinks and I got so so drunk but he was really drunk to. I put silly stories from the night on Facebook and when I woke up still drunk the next day I put a story up apologising for my drunk stories and I said to him I was so embarrassed ( of me and my behaviour) that day I never heard from him and I had to message all week he was short and just not how he had been before I apologise to him. Then asked if he would meet again he said yes we arranged another day and he said he would messaged me when he finished which he didn’t do! He hasn’t blocked me off Snapchat! I really really like him!
do I try and apologise again and say I wasn’t embarrassed by him being on my stories it was me
or do I just walk away and leave it
I have literally cried all week and feel so down
I wish I didn’t suggest going out drinking I was just so so nervous about meeting him and I keep going back through it all in my heed I hate myself for suggesting it and mucking it up
thank you all

Oh love, OK, this didn't go so well, so I'd leave him to it and make it a learning experience - don't drink and date!

And if you have funny stories, maybe just share them between you and him at the beginning.

If he can't see the funny side, or be forgiving he's not the right one for you anyway. Head high, boobs out, move on.

I think I'd leave it, he said he would message and he didn't, he knows your number if he's interested.
I wouldn't beat yourself up about the night out, sounds like you had a good time, perhaps he just isn't interested romantically, there's no rights or wrongs if he was into you, you would know.

No need to apologise again.

You had a few drinks and posted things on fb.
...So what?

A bit cringe maybe but unless he has a stick up his arse (or a gf he is trying to hide you from) it's hardly thr crime of the century.

Crying for a week though? Thag should ring alarm bells with u. You've met him twice (half of that you were steaming) so you barely know him.

Sounds like some serious love bombing has been going on if you're this attached.

I'd take a step back op. If he vanishes now it's arguably actually one of the best ways this could end. Because something isn't healthy here.

I would suggest you let it go, don't do anything else.
If he is interested, he will contact you, otherwise move on.

OP you didn’t muck it up, he’s just not bothered/busy who knows. First date with previous long term relationship (but going back around 15 odd years) I drank red wine which I never touched at the time and vomited on my dates shoes! We were together for years!

Move on to better things! But I would honestly exercise some caution, you say you’ve been crying all week, you barely seem to know this guy. Just be careful with your emotions so you don’t get hurt.

You sound like magnet for abusive guys the way you attach to someone you barely know in a couple of dates.

Please work on yourself first before you try to meet anyone else.